unconscious

The unconscious is the most vulnerable and expandable part of the brain. It is as enormous as the number of things that you have not been able to explain logically and understand convincingly. It is the area where traumas, constraints, gaps, hopes, fears, animosities, irrationalities, unresolved family roots and bonds, states of need reside, along with traditions, conditional reflexes and all other objects and information that you have incorrectly elaborated or brought to the light of consciousness, that is to say, to yourself. It is some sort of "lost property box" that, if you carry on ignoring it, will later in your life turn into a score of enormous containers filled with unlabeled baggage. As a result, you will find yourself amidst utter chaos.

The manipulator knows it, so he avidly deepens the unconscious of his victim. When he finds it necessary, he will begin to insinuate into the victim a sense of uneasiness and interior conflict growing day after day. As a result, the victim will powerlessly witness the gradual dissolution of his/her own mental stability and inner balance.

The manipulator activates this personality dismounting process in his victim without arousing the slightest suspicion, by means of petty daily attitudes, such as insinuation, doubt, hypercriticism, as well as aggressiveness or escape . On such occasions, he pretends to be, in his turn, emotionally touched or moved, so as to shed any suspicion of the coldness or cynicism that are actually his weapons.